TALKING TO YOUR TEEN ABOUT ALCOHOL, TOBACCO AND OTHER DRUGS
(Adopted from the Fall SADD Newsletter) Adolescence can be just as difficult for parents as it is for the teens themselves! Please talk to your teen about issues that can affect his/her well-being.
Begin talking to your son or daughter early. Don’t wait until you suspect a problem.
Be specific. Set a rule that you will not tolerate any use of alcohol or other drugs.
Be frank. Tell your child about the dangerous consequences of using alcohol and/or other drugs.
Know the law. Explain to your teen the law and the consequences of breaking it. An arrest for drinking under the influence of drugs or alcohol or possession of illegal drugs can damage a child’s chances of getting into college or finding a job.
Establish limits and rules, and stick to them. Set curfews! Say no when necessary and don’t waiver. Kids want limits and need to know what those limits are.
Know your teen’s friends and friend’s parents. Be sure you understand their curfews and rules. Know where your teen is at all times.
Tell your teen you will know if he or she has been drinking or doing drugs.
Talk to your child about how to refuse alcohol, other drugs or a ride from an impaired driver without embarrassment.
Work out a plan with your teen to call you if he/she is in a dangerous situation.
Assure your teen that you love him/her, even though you may be temporarily angry with him/her.
Set a good example. If you have a drink as soon as you come in the door from work every day, take medication with alcohol, use drugs, or drive after you drink, you can expect your children to do the same thing. Remember you are a role model and it is important to set a positive example.